Showing posts with label R' Shmelke Of Nikolsburg. Show all posts
Showing posts with label R' Shmelke Of Nikolsburg. Show all posts

Thursday, August 4, 2011

The Two Day Shabbat

The Jewish community of Yanov had barely recovered from its first misfortune when disaster struck a second time.

It had all begun two weeks previously, when the Rabbi of Yanov had set out with a large contingent of local Jews for his daughter's wedding. As the groom's hometown was on the other side of a forest, the wagons would be traveling in a caravan to make sure that no one got lost.

It was almost dark when the convoy stopped to pray the afternoon service. By the time they finished it was early evening, and the sun had already set.

The group was about to proceed when a cry rang out from one of the men. "The Rabbi! Where is the Rabbi?" Immediately, pandemonium broke out among the travelers. They searched all the wagons, but the Rabbi was nowhere to be found. Then someone suggested that perhaps he had wandered off to pray in solitude, and had lost his bearings in the pitch darkness. Anything was possible; the forest was an impenetrable maze at night, without familiar signposts. "Rabbi! Rabbi!" everyone cried at the top of his lungs, but the forest was silent. The Rabbi of Yanov had disappeared.

Terribly worried about their Rabbi's welfare, the Jews consoled themselves with the fact that another person was also missing: Reb Ozer, the wealthiest member of their contingent, was the only individual who had been traveling in a private carriage. "He probably hurried off as soon as we finished praying, and took the Rabbi with him," they reassured each other. "He must have wanted to reach the village before it was completely dark." Everyone clung to this tiny thread of hope as the only possible explanation.

Unfortunately, their bubble burst as soon as they arrived in town. Reb Ozer had indeed gone on ahead without the others, but he was alone, and had no idea where the Rabbi was.

With no other choice the wedding was held without the bride's father. The affair was relatively joyless, as everyone was preoccupied with the Rabbi's fate.

The Rabbi was missing for three whole days. On the fourth day, however, he walked into town, exhausted and hungry almost beyond endurance. It turned out that the travelers' first assumption had been correct: Wishing to concentrate on his prayers, the Rabbi had sought out a quiet place away from the caravan and had lost his bearings. For three days and nights he had subsisted on wild fruits and berries, avoiding the wild animals that roamed the forest. Indeed, it was a miracle that he had been able to find his way back to civilization.

Needless to say, the joy of the Jews of Yanov was beyond description. But their relief was only short-lived, as they realized that they now faced an entirely different problem: That Thursday afternoon, the Rabbi began to berate his family for not getting ready for Shabbat. Despite their protestations that it was only Thursday, he insisted that it was Friday, and that Shabbat would begin in a matter of hours. With mounting horror they realized that the Rabbi had lost track of time during his sojourn through the forest. He had lost a day, and could not be dissuaded.

The news quickly spread throughout the town, and it was decided to play along for the time being. A minyan was assembled so that the Rabbi could pray, after which he recited Kiddush. It was obvious that the situation couldn't continue for long, but no one had any idea what to do.

When the news reached the famous Reb Shmelke of Nicholsburg he jumped into action. A close personal friend of the Rabbi of Yanov, he decided to pay him a surprise visit.

The following Thursday, when Reb Shmelke suggested that they get ready to greet the Sabbath Queen, the Rabbi smiled broadly. Finally, here was someone who agreed with his own reckoning! As dusk fell Reb Shmelke donned his Shabbat clothes and sat down with his friend at the Shabbat table. "I've brought you something special," he told him, producing a bottle of rare aged wine and an elaborate Kiddush cup. "Consider it a gift, to celebrate your salvation." The Rabbi made Kiddush and drank most of the goblet's contents.

Throughout the meal Reb Shmelke kept refilling the Rabbi's cup, encouraging him to rejoice. The wine was so strong, however, that the Rabbi soon fell into a deep sleep. Reb Shmelke placed a pillow under his head, and instructed everyone to leave the room. For 24 hours he made sure that no one made any noise or disturbed him.

The next evening he called everyone back and told them to take the same seats they had occupied night before. Reb Shmelke then made Kiddush, and the Shabbat meal commenced.

Around midnight, Reb Shmelke tapped the Rabbi on the shoulder and roused him from his slumber. "Wake up, my friend," he said. "It's time to recite the Grace After Meals."

Sunday, July 17, 2011

The Power Of Simcha (Joy)

Reb Zusha of Anipoli sat in his home immersed in his Torah studies, when the sounds floating through the window caused him to glance out. Passing in front of his house was a wedding procession leading the bride and groom on their way. Reb Zusha immediately stood up and went out into the street where, abandoning constraint, he danced with unbounded joy. He circled the young couple and the other celebrants for a few minutes of great simcha (joy) and then returned to his home and his study.

His family members watched his actions with great interest. They suggested to him that his dancing before a wedding procession was unbefitting a person of his stature in the community.

To their comment he replied, "Let me tell you a story. When I was young I studied under the famous Maggid of Zlotchov, Reb Yechiel Michel. One day I did something against his wishes and he rebuked me severely. I was terribly hurt by his reaction, and he, sensing anguish, soon came over to me and apologized for the harshness of his response, saying, 'Reb Zusha, please forgive me for my angry words.'

"I was comforted by his apology and replied, 'Of course, I forgive you.'

"The same night before I went to sleep, he again came to me and asked my forgiveness. I was surprised, and repeated that I forgave him totally.

"I lay in bed for a while thinking about the incident, when the father of my Rebbe, Reb Yitzchak of Drohovitch, appeared to me from the Next World. He said to me, 'I had the merit to leave behind me in the world below my only son, and you want to destroy him because he insulted you?'

"'Please, Rebbe, don't say such a thing! I don't want to hurt him and I have certainly forgiven him completely and wholeheartedly! What more can I do than I have already done?'

"'What you have done is still not complete forgiveness. Follow me and I will show you the real meaning of complete forgiveness.'

"So, I got out of my bed and followed him until we reached the local mikva. Reb Yitzchak told me to immerse myself three times, each time saying and feeling that I forgave his son. I obeyed his wishes and immersed three times, each time with the intention of forgiving my Rebbe.

"When I emerged from the mikva I looked at Reb Yitzchak and saw that his face was so radiant that I was unable to gaze upon it. I asked him where that light came from and he replied: 'All my life I have carefully observed three things to which the Sage Rabbi Nechunya ben HaKana attributed his long life: he never sought honor at the expense of the degradation of his fellow; he never went to sleep without forgiving anyone who might have offended or injured him that day; he was always generous with his money. Reb Yitzchak then told me that the very same level which can be achieved through these things can also be reached through joy.

"And that is why when I saw the wedding procession passing in front of our house, I ran outside to partake of the festivities and to add to the simcha of the bride and groom."


Once Rabbi Shmelke of Nikolsburg came to his Rebbe, Reb Dov Ber of Mezrich, with an inquiry: "How is it possible to fulfill the teaching of our rabbis that one is obligated to say a blessing on bad news just as one would on good news?"

The Maggid answered him by instructing him to go to the synagogue. "When you get there ask for Reb Zusha of Anipoli and ask him to explain that dictum to you."

Reb Shmelke did as his Rebbe told him, and when he found Reb Zusha he asked him the question. Reb Zusha was a man who had endured great hardship throughout his entire life. He replied to Reb Shmelke as follows: "I am very surprised that my Rebbe sent you to me, of all people.

A question like yours should be addressed to a person who has, G-d- forbid, actually experienced something terrible in life. Whereas I, thank G-d, know nothing about those frightful things. You see, I have experienced nothing but good all my life. I'm sorry, but I cannot answer your question since I know nothing about evil occurrences."

Reb Shmelke returned to the Maggid with his question answered. He now understood the meaning of the teaching that one is obliged to bless the evil that occurs in life as well as the good, for when man accepts a Divine edict with complete faith and trust, there is no longer a perception of evil inherent in the experiences.